Being The Hostess With The Mostest

Planning an event can be a difficult and challenging time. You have a lot of work to do, both on the day of the event, and in the days and weeks leading up to it. Even something small, like a birthday party, can take a good few weeks to arrange. During this time, the choices you make will greatly shape the experience your guests have while the event is on. So, it makes sense to put a good deal of effort into your planning during this time.

To help you out, this post will be going through some of the biggest elements you’ll have to organise for a special gathering. With this in mind, your planning should be a breeze.

One of the most important parts of a large gathering is the venue that it’s held in. This part of the big day will have a big impression on the mood and feel of the party. You have the chance to give your guests an event to truly remember, it’s just a matter of choosing the right place for it. It’s easy to rent large houses, capable of hosting dozens of families, without having to spend a small fortune on it.

Unlike a hotel, this will give you complete control of the venue. You won’t have to deal with other guests, just the people important to you. This is while receiving the service you’d expect from a grand hotel. There are plenty of other options that are similar to this. So, it’s worth doing plenty of research to figure out the best one for you.

Next, it’s time to think about the food at your event. Like the venue, this element of the party could impact the atmosphere very heavily. When you’re choosing your catering options, it should be done with inclusivity in mind. A lot of event organisers fail to consider the needs of their guests, choosing options which they like above all else. Instead, one of the best ways to handle something like this is with a buffet. Unlike a set menu, this gives your guests a range of choices for their food. It will also make the meal go a lot smoother. You can find catering companies with buffet services in most locations, so it’s just a matter of doing some research to find the best option for you.

Of course, you can’t organise an event without thinking about the entertainment. In most cases, this will be the cherry on top of your big day, giving people a chance to unwind and enjoy something with a drink or two. Live music is one of the best options for any event.

It doesn’t have to be anyone famous or popular, just someone good at what they do. The music should be chosen based on the mood you’d like to set. You can find freelance musicians in most places, offering to play at any event which pays. Although this may not be cheap, it’s a great way to keep everyone entertained.

Hopefully, this post will inspire you to do more with the next event you plan. A lot of people base their choices when organising something like this on their own desires. But, to create something everyone can enjoy, you have to consider options to suit a range of people.

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Showing Your Partner That You're In It For The Long-Haul

'' I Love You '' is the most powerful phrase anyone can say in English. '' I Need A Bacon Sandwich ' is definitely up there, but I love you just beats it to the finishing post.

The problem is, it can fall short of how you actually feel. It doesn’t carry the weight or truth or oomph of how you really feel, no words do. You look your partner in the eye and tell him/her you love them a hundred and thirty-six times a day and yet it still falls a million miles short of the emotion you so desperately want to convey. That is why actions are so important too, especially when it comes to telling your loved one you’re in this for the long haul.

That is why we have come up with some staggeringly powerful (and often unorthodox) ways of showing the person you are head over heels in love with them you’re in this until the end of time.

Give Them A Drawer

This can be as symbolic as you like, but if he is already staying over at your place five nights a week and you absolutely love it, show him by clearing out a drawer for him to put some of his stuff. That way he won’t have to run home every other day to get fresh boxers. If you’ve already done this and it is going as well as Usain Bolt’s career, well, maybe it is time to get some keys cut.

Couple Holiday Cards

We don’t care what anyone else tells you, sending out couple holiday cards is a massive deal. These are a sign of your total addiction to each other because that picture of you two dressed as festive Batman and Robin will grace the mantlepieces of homes all over the country (maybe even the world) for months and months and months after you’ve sent them out. It is a relationship confirming and longevity defining moment in a couple’s life.

Present You Can’t Afford

Nothing says dedication like handing over a present you and your partner you can’t afford yet you went and saved up for anyway. It could be picking a timeless timepiece after speaking to a bunch of vintage Rolex dealers that will do the trick. It could be paying well over the odds for an N64 with all the classics like GoldenEye and Mario Kart. It could be two tickets to Hong Kong to see their brother who moved out there over a year ago and he misses deeply. Whatever will shout volumes to him.

Hand Over Your Password

Sure, there may be more tangible means of showing your commitment to someone, but handing over your password to Facebook, emails and possibly even your online banking is going to show a level of commitment that even a diamond ring and wowzer of a wedding would get jealous of. Of course, the diamond ring may argue that it costs thousands and thousands, but the old password will be able to pop up and argue that it’s priceless.

What methods did you take to show your significant other that you wanted more in the relationship?
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The Essentials For A New Life With A New Partner

It's an exciting part of life when you are embarking on a new beginning with a new partner, and thinking about the big things, such as buying a home, getting married, having children and getting older together.

But a lot of us may look at the material things as being a bit more important sometimes. Some of us want to have the career and the finances to go with it but what is it that we really need to have in place to ensure a happy life together?

A Stable Home

For a lot of us it's about the home comforts, and when we are setting up a home with a loved one, we need to make it is as warm and welcoming as possible. A lot of people in the modern world cannot afford to buy their own home, and so they are stuck with renting, but if it is possible to get a down payment on a mortgage and then it is worth doing so so you can have something that is yours. You don't even have to buy a home that's perfect right away, you can take the time and effort to renovate somewhere to make it exactly what you want out of your perfect home.

There are plenty of renovation companies like that do renovation on a fast time scale, so if time is limited for whatever reason, then you are able to enlist professionals to get it done. If you want to have a warm and welcoming home for future generations, you can't do this by renting.

Communication With Your Partner

If you are about to move in with your partner, it's always important to make sure you do it for the right reasons and to discuss it properly, so you both know exactly where you stand on the situation. But this is a skill you need to carry throughout your relationship. Living together can create tensions you didn't know that was there, so it's always important to be upfront and to encourage channels of communication rather than bottling everything up.

You can look at sites like for a bit more help on improving how you communicate with your partner. Bottling up emotions means that stress will come out in one way or another which isn't good for you at all.


While moving in with someone is a declaration of your love for one another it's always important to keep certain parts of your life just for you. Moving in somewhere together is a wonderful thing but you can end up living in each other's pockets which are not healthy, and while people have date nights it's also important to have time apart so you can both appreciate each other when they're not there. For example, not everybody has the same taste in music or movies, and if this sounds like you and your partner, then that's the perfect opportunity to spend an evening apart.

And while it's healthy to spend a bit of time away from each other, try not to make it an excessive habit! Starting a life with your partner is an adventure in many ways, but it's also the beginning of a new life together, so make sure you have the essentials.

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Organising Your Way Towards Increased Health

Nothing in this world is more important than your health. You only get one body in this life, and failing to take care of it will bring very real consequences. Unfortunately, amidst the complexities of modern life, it can be very easy to overlook some of the crucial factors.

Regaining control of your health, and happiness begins with establishing a sense of organisation. Without that sense of structure, you’ll never unlock your true potential of a better lifestyle. Here are six simple suggestions that can transform your future forever. Start incorporating them into your life today, and those improvements will soon follow.

#1. Change Your Commute

If you’re lucky enough to work in a physically demanding job, fitting exercise into your routines won’t be a problem. Unfortunately, though, it’s difficult to burn calories when you've sat an office desk all day long.

Your commute is one aspect that can be upgraded, though. Cycling to work gives you a chance to gain the benefits of workouts without eating into your leisure time. Alternatively, you could simply get off the bus at an earlier stop and walk the last mile. It’s a small change that brings noticeable results. Again, the fact it doesn’t impact your day means it’s a far more attractive option than working out.

#2. Prepare Your Lunches

Nutrition is clearly an important aspect of leading a healthy lifestyle. Sadly, time constraints can make it very tempting to choose processed foods for dinner and eat out while you’re at work. Deep down, you know that this isn’t good for your body. A few simple changes will get you back on the right track.

The internet is packed with great meal prep recipes that can transform lunchtimes. Likewise, slow cookers are a great tool for cooking dinners without hindering your day. The resulting food will be healthier, tastier, and cheaper. Try it for a couple of weeks, and the new habit will soon become second nature.

#3. Manage Health Issues

Nobody is immune from getting ill or facing various health conditions. Preventing those problems might not always be a possibility, but you can at least reduce the damage and disruption that they cause. However, this is only possible when you follow plans and treatments to perfection.

Getting the right diagnosis and instructions is vital. Some pharmacies now offer online reordering of medication too, meaning you’ll never miss your prescription. Support this structure with daily reminders to take them at the same times each day, and keeping your body in the best shape becomes easy.

#4. Gain Emotional Stability

By now, we can all appreciate the fact that mental health is as important as physical health. If you are showing signs of depression or other serious conditions, it’s important that you seek professional support. But even those that don’t have those problems need to establish a sense of emotional stability. Otherwise, the inability to plan your future can create unnecessary stress and physical health issues.

It’s not all about your personal stability. You need to think about the people around you too. Whether it’s showing your partner that you’re in it for the long haul or creating stability for your children doesn’t matter. Knowing that your lives are heading in the right direction is key.

#5. Control Finances

You may not think the link between financial security and good health exists, but it certainly does. Money worries are the most common source of stress in modern society. Moreover, the consequences of being poor will cause several physical health problems. Without needing to be rich, you should avoid discomfort in this field.

Take the time to organise your income and outgoings with a spreadsheet and basic bookkeeping. This will also highlight any areas that require immediate attention. This could mean reducing the TV bill, car insurance, or grocery costs. Either way, analysing the situation is the first step to recovery, and it will indirectly boost your health.

#6. Take Time To Relax

Modern life is more frantic than ever before. As such, the positive steps mentioned above need to be supplemented by ample recuperation. Good sleep patterns are important. However, you should also treat yourself to regular relaxation with spa days and short breaks.

Fail to give your body a chance to recharge its batteries, and the physical damage will slowly start to show. In turn, that lack of energy can actively reduce your ability to make the most of your days. For the sake of productivity as well as your happiness, now is the time to change it for the better.
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