Weddings!
They are an absolute joyous affair aren’t they but they can also be one of the most stressful things to plan, alongside moving house, that probably wins, but planning a wedding is close behind when it comes to those rising stress levels. No matter how long you have to plan your wedding, or how big your budget is, you are possibly going to have concerns on your big day. You may not want to be late, although that is a bride's prerogative, but what other things could you be concerned about?
I wanted to share with you some of the common dilemmas or concerns brides have before or during their special day.
Whether your guests will have a good time
Will your guests have a good time? That is a question you might be asking yourself over and over, and to be honest, you can’t predict or know how they are going to feel on your special day. But what you can do is ensure that you throw a great party, and there are many ways that you can do it. Thinking about the venue and getting the right place is crucial, but other aspects like a good DJ or having a wedding band can also really get the party started. Websites like AliveNetwork.com would be a great place to start if you are looking for someone. Just remember to book them up in advance so that you don’t miss out.
Does your theme and colour scheme match?
One of the biggest things you may fear on your day is whether the theme you have chosen and the colour scheme match together. Websites like theknot.com could help you ahead of time. It is all well and good working of your sample for however many months, but once it is put together does it really look as good as you thought it would?
Does the bridesmaid dress match the bows on the chairs? In theory, these details are never going to be important on the day, no guest is really that bad where they will take notice or comment on these things, but it can be a genuine worry for any bride on the lead up to the big day.
Has the vision come alive?
Not only will you be worrying about your colour scheme and theme, but you might also be concerned about whether the whole vision for your day has come alive exactly how you imagined it would? It can be a tricky situation to find yourself in, but when you have something in your head and it gets presented in front of you, for some it isn’t always exactly how you pictured it. Again whether this is a worry about flowers or how your venue looks, once you get married none of it will really matter. It will all look and feel fabulous.
Any family or friendship drama on the big day
Finally, all families and friendship groups can have time where there is a bit of drama and tension so it may be a big concern for you when it comes to your big day as to whether these people will mix and be happy. However, if they care for you, those differences will be put aside I am sure of it.
I hope that sharing these concerns help to put your mind at rest a little.
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